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Healing, Trauma Recovery

Poetry – The Healing Remedy To Trauma

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March 10, 2020

- Healing, Trauma Recovery

Mental health has become a very real and transparent topic discussed amongst many demographics. It is crucially important that we are informed about the effects, impact and recognize the signs of unstable mental health and put in place the proper outlets to help us maintain a healthy state of mind. 
 

“The mind can be a beautiful servant or a dangerous master.” – OSHO

 
Poetry has served as a great way to help me heal from my trauma. It provided me a safe space to process and express my emotions and I found my voice that resonated with others and their pain. I have to agree with Audre Lorde’s quote “Poetry is Not a Luxury.” My life and what I had to war through in order to heal came with great aguish, but the written words of my heart brought me freedom and healing.
 
Words are powerful and your experiences can be repurposed for a meaningful life. It reconnects you back to yourself and allows you to connect with who you are to become and those that are on your journey waiting to hear your story. You will find solace in that which you have suffered and build a bridge between your words and your soul.
 
Here is a snippet of one of my poems called “Sista Pass the Cup”:



This poem was written from the encounters, interactions and hurts experienced by sisters that were judged of their past, rejected instead of comforted and loved. How as sisters God has called us to cover and protect each other.

I would encourage you to write through your pain and let your words become the anchor to your wholeness. Share with someone close to you or since you’re subscribed to my mailing list, shoot me a quick email of your creative words and let me know how writing has helped you. ?

Happy Writing! ✍?

Here’s to moving from Trauma to Triumph, Fear to Faith and Brokenness to Strength.
Sia Moiwa
CEO & Founder – IOG

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Trauma Recovery

Protect Your Peace!

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February 15, 2020

- Trauma Recovery

Don’t let them have it…..

Take Back Your Peace!


How do you protect your peace?


I want you to put these 5 simple steps into action this week:
 
1.) Know what triggers you.
     (This helps you to become aware and process if it deserves your peace)
2.) Do not engage in toxic conversations.
     (Anything toxic will taint your peace and dissolve it)
3.) Communicate how a relationship or situation makes you feel.
     (You have a right to voice how your peace is being affected) 
4.) Speak Peace and you’ll think Peace.
     (Anything you desire to see in your life must be spoken to manifest)
5.) Don’t be afraid to take a break or change your environment.
  (Sometimes in order to save your peace you must remove yourself completely)

What it means to protect your Peace and WHY!
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Baggage, Emotional Trauma, Processing Trauma, Trauma Recovery

What’s In Your Bag? Let it Go!

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January 16, 2020

- Baggage, Emotional Trauma, Processing Trauma, Trauma Recovery

When you hear the term “Bag Lady” what is the first thing that comes to mind?

You may think instantly, it’s a homeless woman who carries her possessions in shopping bags right?

Well, let me give you a different perspective. The truth is a lot of us have been or still are bag ladies. Yes, the lady walking around like she has it all together but on the inside; her soul is filled with hurts, pains, disappointments and bitterness that I call Emotional Baggage. Mad at the world! You can hear her screams of hurt in her body language, her conversations and her pattern of broken relationships.

The weight of her soul issues stripes her identity into pieces, leaving her with nowhere to sort or unpack.

Are you HER? How long will you allow your bags to consume your life? When will you recycle the bags in their proper place? At some point, you’re going to have to throw them bags away!
 

 Have you ever heard the song “Bag Lady” by Erykah Badu?

I’ve always sung the words to this song without any real thought to what she was saying or letting the words penetrate. 


Read the lyrics below.
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Bag lady you gone hurt your back
Dragging all them bags like that
I guess nobody ever told you
All you must hold onto, is you, is you, is you
 
One day all them bags gon’ get in your way
One day all them bags gon’ get in your way
I said one day all them bags gon’ get in your way
One day all them bags gon’ get in your way, so pack light,
Pack light, mm, pack light, pack light, oh ooh
 
Bag lady you gon’ miss your bus
You can’t hurry up, ’cause you got too much stuff

Bag lady, let it go let it go let it go let it go oh
You won’t believe it, it feels so much better, so much better baby
So oh, oh, oh, if you start breathin’ babe
You can’t deny it you can’t stop crying
Oh when someone hurts you oh so bad inside
Girl I know, sometimes it’s hard and we can’t let goGirl you don’t need it
Bet ya love could make it better
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Let that sink in for a moment!
 

Erykah was trying to give her sister’s a reality check! Let it go, heal and don’t miss your bus. 
Your bags were never meant to become your lifestyle.
 
Emotional Baggage can have you surviving life but not living it.
 
This week I want to challenge you to take one step towards your healing:

  1. Pick a traumatic experience that has contributed to your emotional baggage.
  2. Identify your negative emotions. (make a list to help you understand everything you felt or currently feeling)
  3. Write a statement of when you experienced each emotion and why? “Because of…. “I feel.” (stress, sadness, anxiety or fear…ect)
  4. Once you have addressed the root of the pain, accept the event and/or situation. It did happen, but it does not have to be something that you allow to haunt you.
  5. Give yourself permission to heal. Reject your sense of injury – you can’t change the past, but you can create a new future.
  6. If you’re comfortable, share this “bag” with someone that can be supportive and love you through.
  7. Encourage yourself daily with positive self-talk to reassure yourself the bag has been put in the proper place. The only amount of power it holds over you is the power you give to it. Take Your POWER Back!

Email me and let me know if this exercise helped. I‘d love to hear your feedback.
 

Here’s to moving from Trauma to Triumph, Fear to Faith and Brokenness to Strength.
Sia Moiwa
CEO & Founder – IOG

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